I'm sorry that you feel that you have to leave the forum because of this. I followed this and the other thread though can't say I played close close attention to the posts so don't necessarily remember them.
The reason that he's saying what he's saying is that the site does not look that great and the logo is very unprofessional, and yet you spent a few $100 on a secretary and 1300 number. What him and others are trying to get across is that for you to make money on this you need to spend money on the things that count. A 1300 number isn't going to make as big of a difference as a profesional looking theme and profesional logo etc.
The reason that he's saying what he's saying is that the site does not look that great and the logo is very unprofessional, and yet you spent a few $100 on a secretary and 1300 number. What him and others are trying to get across is that for you to make money on this you need to spend money on the things that count. A 1300 number isn't going to make as big of a difference as a profesional looking theme and profesional logo etc.